It was Mardi Gras.
So, this weekend. What a freaking blast. Mellisa, Jason, Mary, Nicole, Andrew, Morgan, and Emily, along with all of Mellisa's family can testify.
Since I've moved into the "Deep South" (Mobile area and Auburn). One thing I'm glad I encountered here is Mardi Gras. I've participated since I was 15 years old. I didn't understand it but knew it was for me the second they said, "Oh, there's no school Monday and Tuesday. It's Mardi Gras." I was hooked.
Mardi Gras comes in all shapes and sizes. We've got (or used to have) New Orleans Mardi Gras. I remember a certain friend who was tricked out of 20 bucks and a gay ole' time on Bourbon Street...I've been with one person, I've been with groups. It's always fun, and it's ALWAYS what you make of it. I've seen so many titties, I've lost count. I've almost been arrested, twice. I've peed in front of people. I've even "earned" some beads. (I'll never forget that red-headed 50-something w/the big hair and sloppy make-up). It's fun. My brother went this weekend and said it was packed, but clean and orderly, like New Orleans has never been.
Mobile Mardi Gras is one notch down on revelry and a little angrier in spirit. Everyone knows Mardi Gras started in Mobile, but no one respects it for that. You have the occasional shooting at a parade, but otherwise, it's family friendly and you score w/beads and moon-pies. I've yet to see titties at a Mobile parade, but I imagine it happens...I like to imagine it happens.
Moving to the beautiful eastern shore of Mobile Bay, Fairhope and Daphne; probably Robertsdale and Foley all have their own Mardi Gras parades. They're on the extremely family friendly side. Like if Disney had a Mardi Gras parade and didn't give them a Disney-sized budget. Don't get me wrong, they put a lot of work and money into these things every year. The floats are fantastic, creative and artistic. Everything's taken seriously to that point..and everyone works to make it fun.
I've been fortunate enough to have been invited to one of Fairhope's Mardi Gras Societies, The Knights of Ecor Rouge, Mardi Gras Ball two years in a row. I don't know the Knights' history, I don't know what else they do throughout the year.. I can guess they have fun doing whatever it is they do. These guys are crazy fun. They start the drinking mid-day and forget their troubles for one fantastic night full of more drinking, catered roast hog and beef, live music, and of course dancing. There's good dancing, bad dancing, spastic dancing, you name it, we did it. I will remember these events the rest of my life and hope to continue adding more balls and revelry to my history. (I know how that sounded.)I recently blogged about a good day I had. It was a day that kept me happy to be human. Mardi Gras does this to me, too. It keeps my endorphin levels up. The alcohol helps, but stresses from work, from money, from you name it, melt away like a moon-pie in the rain. Every year, it's a miniature vacation for me. It only takes a weekend to keep my spirits high for weeks.
Recently, I started participating in the Lent tradition as well. This year will be the third year I sacrifice something for those 40 days. I'm not catholic, but if it came down to it, I'd probably pick it as my religion of choice. That or Judaism. (That's another blog, maybe). I really feel, cosmically, spiritually, whatever: to be able to have as much fun as I've had during Mardi Gras festivities, I should pay a price. A price I pay willingly. Don't get me wrong on that, Mardi Gras has cost me some cash in the past (see $20 reference above, for starters). Besides, balance and sacrifice are good for the soul; everyone knows that.
To end my story, I post a link to some pictures I took this weekend. A lot have kids in them, a lot have beads in them, some have me yelling. My friends, old and new, were perfect company and look good in formal wear. I know that's what you're here for, but I hope you enjoyed my take on Mardi Gras, Gulf Coast-style.

Mardi Gras 2006
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